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[size=3]一个大家不是特别热门的话题,可又是一个非常现实的问题。[/size] [size=3][/size] [size=3]Prenuptial Agreement.[/size] [size=3][/size] [size=3][/size] [size=3][/size] [size=3]你愿意签么? [/size] [size=3][/size] [size=3]你会在婚前给你的另外一半提出这个要求么?[/size] [size=3][/size] [size=3][/size] [size=3][/size] [size=3][/size] [size=3]我身边有不少有能力的年轻朋友,现在努力的赚钱就为了买几个房子,在银行里存够钱来建立一个家。[/size] [size=3]这些年轻能干的人心想着一个家,可是有时不知道另外一方心里和你在一起真正的目的是什么。[/size] [size=3]及时交往了2~3年,有时候还是看不清楚一个人,谈到钱的问题,大家都很敏感,自己努力了那么久赚来的房产/存款/车[/size] [size=3]谁愿意在一夜之间就被另外一个人拿走一半,而且是开车你的车,住着你的房和他们的新伴侣在一起。。。这个是很多人的噩梦。[/size] [size=3][/size] [size=3]在LA 8/10 marriage end in divorce. 到了法庭上都是一团糟,你养了另外一方那么多年来不说,他走前还要拿走你的一半。[/size] [size=3]as Chris Rock said in one of his comedy " I WANT HALF"[/size] [size=3][/size] [size=3]一个不热门的TOPIC.[/size] [size=3][/size] [size=3]what you do think about prenups?[s:235]  大家来说说。[/size]
"I love you, but I just want to make sure you are not in it for the money" "if they've got no bad intentions then they wouldn't object to it " "find out if you trust me before you ask me to marry you" "i'll sign it, but in the back of my mind I will always know that he doesn't trust me" 这些时我听到的一些看法,一看就知道是哪方写的。 可发现总结是,钱多的那方赞同,钱少的多数有意见
那我问一句现实的问题, 如果那些“年轻有为"的男士,质疑跟他在一起的女士的爱的目的,那为什么还要结婚呢? 又不是非得结婚 不要因为结婚而结婚
如果双方都想法OPEN点呢,签了也没什么。 要是有一方想多了,自然会起争端了~
[quote]引用第1楼bunnyface于2010-09-10 09:41发表的  : "I love you, but I just want to make sure you are not in it for the money" "if they've got no bad intentions then they wouldn't object to it " "find out if you trust me before you ask me to marry you" ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=259789&pid=5993638][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] 其实你自己也清楚,为什么你只想找一个年轻有为,背景雄厚的男人, 有很多种答案,每个人态度都不一样, 没有真的所谓的正确答案 如果能找一个好,谁想要坏的 我只能说:女人,还是靠自己吧, 这样就不会怕自己有所损失
不签字啦 他如果够喜欢你的分一半钱给你算什么 全部给你也就那回事 你看哪个人死的时候可以把阳间财物带走的
that's the price for the love and your marriage. If you don't want pay for that, don't fall in love and don't got married. you better know this before your next step, other wise just play your own life like never exist.
如果对方提出,我会签的。 但自己不会提这种要求。
[quote]引用第7楼speed-date于2010-09-10 10:59发表的 : 如果对方提出,我会签的。 但自己不会提这种要求。 [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=259789&pid=5993828][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] 握手! ME TOO.
我觉得 那这个出来签字的男人 基本不值得嫁
[quote]引用第2楼浪漫purple于2010-09-10 09:49发表的 : 那我问一句现实的问题, 如果那些“年轻有为"的男士,质疑跟他在一起的女士的爱的目的,那为什么还要结婚呢? ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=259789&pid=5993657][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] 有的时候女的想结婚生孩子了,男方觉得结不结都可以, 女人年龄大了也许怕浪费自己的时间把,但是男人觉得两个人在一起虽然很好,可是或许结婚后女的就会想离婚为了得到财产。 也不能说那方不对,毕竟这种事情发生过很多,的确是有很多女的这么做为了钱才。当然男人也有。
[quote]引用第7楼speed-date于2010-09-10 10:59发表的 : 如果对方提出,我会签的。 但自己不会提这种要求。 [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=259789&pid=5993828][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] [quote]引用第8楼fairladyz于2010-09-10 11:17发表的 : 握手! ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=259789&pid=5993874][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] 果然是我的两个知己!![s:270] [s:270] 想法都和我一样
[quote]引用第5楼xjqqws于2010-09-10 10:28发表的 : 不签字啦 他如果够喜欢你的分一半钱给你算什么 全部给你也就那回事 你看哪个人死的时候可以把阳间财物带走的 [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=259789&pid=5993727][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] 哇,没看出来哥你想得这么开. 不错不错~ 
[quote]引用第6楼yw1015于2010-09-10 10:38发表的 : that's the price for the love and your marriage. If you don't want pay for that, don't fall in love and don't got married. you better know this before your next step, other wise just play your own life like never exist. [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=259789&pid=5993741][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] 没想到既然这么多男生出来反对.  很惊讶噢~~
[quote]引用第11楼bunnyface于2010-09-10 11:55发表的 : 果然是我的两个知己!![s:270] [s:270] 想法都和我一样 [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=259789&pid=5993971][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] So when do I get to meet your other 知己?
Now I ain't saying she's a gold digger, but she ain't messing with no broke nigger~!!
yours is mine, mine is still mine [s:210]
[quote]引用第14楼fairladyz于2010-09-10 12:21发表的  : So when do I get to meet your other 知己? [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=259789&pid=5994034][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] let me call her up, we should do it in the coming week if she's not busy!!  she's quit a catch i must say, be prepared Z! you might get electrocuted!!! rarely I find a girl who's close to my age more driven and capable than myself.  If i was a guy i would be ALL OVER HER!!!! 
[quote]引用楼主bunnyface于2010-09-10 09:33发表的 你愿意签字么? : [size=3]一个大家不是特别热门的话题,可又是一个非常现实的问题。[/size] [size=3][/size] [size=3]Prenuptial Agreement.[/size] [size=3][/size] [size=3][/size] ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=259789&pid=tpc][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] when his/her vow turns into shit and u got fucked in the ass, emotionally and financially maybe, just maybe prenup was not such a bad idea   and i know all yo folks got so much pride that u think u r so special, the universe would not allow shit like that happen to u but as we r all aware that the universe is an ass hole so when ur ex takes ur ex dog, living in ur ex home, fucking ur ex dentist just keep in mind that this is not the end of ur life, u can always sell blood to pay the divorce lawyer fee and alimony and by the by, i admire those who still have faith in love, i truly do godspeed to u all
[quote]引用第18楼倚梦公子于2010-09-10 13:15发表的  : [size=2][font=arial][color=#333333]so when ur ex takes ur ex dog, living in ur ex home, fucking ur ex dentist[/color][/font][/size]   ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=259789&pid=5994135][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] LOLLLLL, i was thinking more of fucking ex boss or ex yoga-instructor...but ex DENTIST~!?!? XD
所以说还是门当户对的好,签就签吧,反正大家差不多
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