I suffer from Relationship-Phobia.  Do you? 

昨晚跟几个朋友开MSN扯到凌晨，均不约而同地大叹-------害怕结婚。 有人说婚姻是束缚，仿佛是往脚上套50磅的铅球和铁链。 有人说婚姻是错误，只不过错的程度不同而已。 说实话，且不要说结婚，我连交往都感到害怕。 这里的"害怕"并非指物理上的惊慌和畏惧，而是心理上的不安定因素。 借着一杯冰酒，我分析了一下，发觉根本的原因有两点: #1 我太自私。 #2 尚未遇见对的人。 早已习惯，并喜爱自由在在，无牵无挂的生活方式。总是跟朋友说: Single Life is AWESOME.  Do anything I want, go anywhere I want.  Does it get much better than this? 这句话并非借口或者掩饰。因为事实就是如此。 一旦介入了某个关系，一旦跟谁开始交往，立刻会背上各种各样的责任-----that is, if you are a responsible individual.  而目前我肩头的担子已经够重了，实在不想再为了谁谁谁而负责，为了谁谁谁做出任何程度的改变。Simply put, I refuse to compromise my life style for anyone. 当然，如果你选择不负责任，那是你的哲学。That's another dicussion for another day, and not with me, as I fundamentally disagree. 可潜意识里我仍旧相信。 如果遇到了那个对的人。 如果遇到了那个对的人，那也许我不再会觉得Relationship是一种负担。也许我会出于主观意愿，为了她而改变 / 改善自己。 So now what?  Keep on waiting for the Right One?  Until then, enjoy Single Life as is, and love every minute of it? Sounds like a pretty solid plan to me.

王小虎-没那么简单

roamy findying roamy came along roamy there's something about roamy lmao u come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly dude, i wish some day, an imperfect person shall be perceived as perfect from ur perspective

preach on, bro. Love is not about satisfying your own need and expectation, it's more about loving, serving, caring your other half from his or her perspective. it's not self-centered, but other-centered. sounds very idealistic, but only this kind of loving relationship can last.

it is all about age.

[quote]引用第4楼cloud_zhou于2011-03-06 22:56发表的  : it is all about age.  [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=280695&pid=6645647][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] i have a motion people indulge themselves with regular intercourse shall not be entitled the right of speaking here ... lol

[quote]引用第1楼刘氓于2011-03-06 18:22发表的 : 王小虎-没那么简单 [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=280695&pid=6644141][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] 楼主讲的一堆也没你的一句话简练明了。

[quote]引用第1楼刘氓于2011-03-06 18:22发表的 : 王小虎-没那么简单 [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=280695&pid=6644141][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] [quote]引用第6楼l红颜祸水于2011-03-07 00:01发表的 : 楼主讲的一堆也没你的一句话简练明了。 [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=280695&pid=6645812][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] Enlighten me.

哇。。好久没见楼主在这个板上混了。。。 突然一出现就发这么有哲理的帖子，佩服佩服

[quote]引用第8楼metrotown于2011-03-07 10:44发表的 : 哇。。好久没见楼主在这个板上混了。。。 突然一出现就发这么有哲理的帖子，佩服佩服 [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=280695&pid=6646462][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] No mockery pls, brother. Now that Spring is here, I am holding another Autoclub meet soon.  Your presence would be delightful.

人都这样 都怕孤单 都怕被人约束   如果没有打算放弃东西 那么请慎重交往 免得害人害己

[quote]引用第9楼fairladyz于2011-03-07 15:12发表的  : No mockery pls, brother. ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=280695&pid=6646794][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] it was not a not mockery dude...[s:198]..I was trying to say ur post does make sense.. regarding the auto-club, probably I drive one of the crappiest car among all members.

[quote]引用第11楼metrotown于2011-03-07 20:10发表的 : it was not a not mockery dude...[s:198] ..I was trying to say ur post does make sense.. regarding the auto-club, probably I drive one of the crappiest car among all members. [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=280695&pid=6647262][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] LOL no worries man, I was just pulling your leg re: mockery part.  The conclusion that I came up was probably naive and even laughable to some people.  But it's the best I could do, for now. As for cars.  Dude.  You don't even need to have wheels in order to show up at a meet.  This club does not require a Maserati as the ticket of entry.  If you are fond of cars, show up and you'll meet some fellow automotive enthusiasts.

恐惧感往往是自己强加给自己的，多想乐观点儿的，多看身边幸福的情侣朋友们，既然他们能做到，自己也没鸟毛问题滴

[quote]引用第1楼刘氓于2011-03-06 18:22发表的  : 王小虎-没那么简单 [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=280695&pid=6644141][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] [s:200]

go with the float la

[quote]引用第13楼kickky于2011-03-08 00:23发表的 : 恐惧感往往是自己强加给自己的，多想乐观点儿的，多看身边幸福的情侣朋友们，既然他们能做到，自己也没鸟毛问题滴 [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=280695&pid=6647729][img]/club/p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] 每次看到你的照片,脑海里只有2个字"好帥"

[quote]引用第5楼倚梦公子于2011-03-06 23:35发表的  : i have a motion people indulge themselves with regular intercourse shall not be entitled the right of speaking here ... lol ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=280695&pid=6645745][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] not a good time, my friend, gotta finish up the painting for baby's room this weekend LOL, i know

[quote]引用第17楼cloud_zhou于2011-03-08 21:16发表的  : not a good time, my friend, gotta finish up the painting for baby's room this weekend ....... [url=/club/job.php?action=topost&tid=280695&pid=6655446][img]p_w_picpath/back.gif[/img][/url] [/quote] omg dude, u just blinded me by using the word "baby" oh yeah, u laugh now, when the baby actually arrives, u can talk again ... lmao